On a fam trip, you should participate in all planned activities. But you shouldn't accept gifts of more than nominal value.
Such is the path created through the murky world of right and wrong in the planner/supplier relationship by the Corporate Advisory Council of the Society of Incentive & Travel Executives (SITE). The council recently approved a code of ethics for corporate planners in the incentive industry. Here's how the council sees things.
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